Bridal shower invitation guidelines
Tuesday, June 9th, 2009Having the honor of inviting the bride’s closest friends and female relatives is part of the fun of throwing bridal shower. After you are done with all the details and have prepared everything line a good general, now comes the part where you invite people. Now, why leave the invitation for last, you might ask? Well, for practicality’s sake you would not want the hassle of calling everyone and then resend another invitation should you have to move the date to another day. Also, of course you want a successful party where everything is perfect, right? And this includes the invitation. Therefore for it to match your perfect party, it would be better to have the invitation last. What if you suddenly decide to throw away a theme party instead? Of course you want to inform your guest properly then and of course to have a matching theme invitation. In other words, if you still have not sent out the invitation, you can still make as many changes as your want with the party.
Now before you write on the invitations, the first thing you should do is to make a list of all the people you are going to invite. To make sure you have not left someone uninvited, you start by asking the bride for list of. Then with the list on your hand, go over it with the bride so you can make sure that these people would also be invited in the wedding. If you invite someone not invited for the wedding, well, that would be quite embarrassing for the bride.
Now after you have the list, you should now have the proper wordings for the invitation. The first things that your invitation should have are the bride’s full name, the date of the party, the time, the location and the RSVP details. Then you also might want to include the theme of the party and the gifts, if it is a theme party. And do not forget your name as the host of the bridal shower. If you are giving a surprise party, make sure you give explicit instructions and details to the guests so that they will be able to arrive earlier than the bride. Lastly, make sure your invitation will be received by the guests ahead of time so that they will have the time to arrange their schedules, to buy gifts and to prepare.